The Red Flags of A Potential Domestic Violence Abuser
- Your partner comes on as a real charmer and loves you instantly
- Your partner has problems with authority figures
- Your partner embarrasses you in the presence of others
- Your partner is nasty on the road – feels other drivers are competing with him or her
- Your partner wants your undivided attention at all times
- You feel controlled because your partner must always be “in charge”
- Your partner has a dual personality – sometimes adult, other times childish
- Your partner is very competitive and must always win
- Your partners promises and apologies are meaningless
- Your partner displays jealousy toward close friends and family members
- Your partner can’t tolerate criticism and is always defending him or herself and trying to justify unacceptable behavior
- Your partner has extreme highs and lows – both unpredictable
- Your partner is rough at times – love pats become more and more painful. Suddenly, you realize he or she is a serious abuser, and your are a victim.
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